Let me help you out, and we’ll get through this.” The kid’s been like this since barely 3 years old. It is currently -37 c so going outside is not an option). However as you pointed out I am afraid that I am creating a disrespectful and out of control child who no one wants to be around. Typically we clean up one activity before we move on to another, and we simply don’t move on until the cleaning is done. We love being with children, and we will discuss every possible topic regarding them. Something to consider. I struggle with positive discipline and can always use more inspiration! My son is string-willed like his momma to say the least! But when your child blatantly rebels against a rule, I don’t see how positive redirection or the positive discipline works. I literally cannot leave her alone for less than 1 minute because she will be doing something. So this shows me that even speaking words or repentance to someone will bring life to the situation, even if they don’t “feel” it in their spirits, they eventually will, and releasing the anger by way of repentance is a way to do this. I have a spirited and advanced little miss 3yo and have been struggling with her alot. What good is “sorry” if it’s said with anger and by a child who simply doesn’t mean it? 5 Examples of Positive Discipline for Toddlers. I don’t really know what else to do, any advice? You may find some modern examples of positive discipline if you read about children’s psychology. I’m the author of Natural Remedies for Kids and the owner and lead herbalist at Earthley. […] check out this post, 9 Examples of Positive Discipline, for practical examples of how I might handle specific situations. For instance if you are out and there is a table full of sweets, or what they make for their own breakfasts, etc…, We talk a lot about healthy food choices all the time. If you strike him with the rod, you will save his soul from Sheol. I believe in it as a last resort. and right now she is i think exploring cause-and-effect to the max, because she loves to color…the walls. If you feel irritated regularly, yoga allows you to control your reflection and anger. One of mine will refuse to clean up and continue playing and ignoring all instructions, but when it comes down to everyone eating and that child is not, the kid quickly and calmly cleans up. So thanks and wish me luck!!! Get our FREE no-nonsense vaccine guide. Thank you! He can’t be close to her without making her cry. I involve them in cooking and learning to make their own healthy options, and I keep lots of healthy options around. that owuld be a 40 mile wasted trip and didn’t have the time or money for that. I actually kind of think spanking is irrelevant. Life is short and that takes way too much energy. Well now if I tell her no to something she wants (usually to go to the park with a friend when I’m picking her up from school) she will start by arguing and whining and asking for reasons why not. The instructor mentioned that my daughter pinched her and said she “doesn’t do pinching”. What a lot of people say when they first hear about positive discipline is often something like “Okay, that sounds good in theory…but what does it look like in practice? When you’re angry, your ability to think is diminished, and it’s so easy to revert to the old ways…even when you said you wouldn’t and are upset, later, that you did. cleaning up the kitchen, our family area, when you are done), then you don’t get to have those things. Does the toy get taken and put up? I wonder if you have any other consequences that you use—writing sentences, taking favorite things away, going to bed early, not allowing participation in pre=planned events, etc? Answer your questions with rational, fact-based information instead of fear. Your secret weapon will be to distinguish between your work or your personal problems and what is happening at home with your children. We also talk him through his feelings when he is overwhelmed. Discipline of any sort should never be used as a means to control a child’s behavior, but rather to instruct them in the difference of right and wrong. But there are lots of studies done on what happened to people who were spanked, through self-reports from kids. Hitting is taking out frustration. Lots of prayer for me hahah, most of the time I make myself laugh if not ill cry. It’s a long process. There would be consequences if he did, like going home immediately and not being allowed to shop with me the next time. Right now my tactic is either distraction by snack or joking, or using the stroller so he’s more tightly strapped in. Any suggestions? Thanks! That just means that some could deal with even a “wrong” spanking and it would roll off them, but others would be extremely distressed even by a “right” spanking. Tired? before all, you are supposed to prepare yourself from the day you decide to have a baby. Your style of writing is awesome, your sense of humor made me laugh and I love your disclaimer at the end! (I really didn’t “get” how to keep things clean even as an adult and had to learn!) Ask Him for wisdom and He will direct you. If I waited till I was “ready” to apologize it could be too late. Not a stick to hit with. I’m struggling with my 3 year old daughter and not leaving her baby brother alone. My heart is heavy when I go to sleep at night feeling as though I have let my children down. Bath, pj’s, put away toys, books, prayers then lights out. Thank you! My 22 mon old daughter recently started ISR swim classes. I still occasionally threaten the kids with things I don’t want to do, but then stop and think and redirect myself. We’ve sent her to play in her room and talked. He deserves that, and I agree with everything you said. They do not get it back, especially if it was thrown at a person. Simple explanations are so great. When I explain to her my reasoning she usually will continue whining and arguing saying “but mama, I really want x, y, or z!”. I have two children, one is six years old and the other is six months old. The rod was constantly in the shepherd’s hand as he walked in front of the sheep and led the way. When the kids have taken straps off before the car was turned off (although we were stopped), I made them re-strap, I drove around a bit, then parked again. At home, if their only options are healthy choices, that’s what they’ll eat, and it’s super important for parents to model healthy eating. He needs to fully understand that it’s NEVER ok to act that way! Not to mention that every kid’s going to react differently. And in those cases it is absolutely best to instruct, train, practice, tell them what TO do, etc. Usually hitting occurs because of built-up frustration, so separating the kids and ending the situation defuses it. You all have responsibilities. Thanks again for the post! Day 1 and 2 went great. How do you deal with stubborn 8 year olds that dint want to go to bed at night. My 5-year-old LOVES her baby brother and is constantly picking him up and carrying him around. It hurt and made you feel sad. I don’t mess around with safety. The majority of parents are victims of domestic violence in the past. As I’m writing, the kids are cleaning up their art activity in the kitchen, and Grandpa is coming to visit soon. Take away from this ideas, examples and see what works for you. If they don’t have the option of eating junk, they won’t eat junk. Sounds great! 4. Punishment is not the answer. Which is to be expected, especially the first week. Even if I want to give hlm what he wants, I can’t always drop everything because I have a four month old baby.

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